This Night

When I saw you,I was afraid to talk to you.. When I talked to you,I was afraid to hold you.. When I hold you,I was afraid to love you.. Now that I love you and I afraid to lose you.

You make me smile for no reason whatsoever

You make me laugh at the unfunniest things

But most of all,you make me love you…

When I shouldn’t be loving you.

You will know when you really love someone

When you want her to be happy even if her happiness means you are not a part of it

Don’t be to good,I will miss you

Don’t be to caring,I might like you

Don’t be too sweet,I might fall

Kahwin Kerana Apa?

Nabi saw bersabda:

"1. Sesiapa yang mengahwini wanita kerana kehebatan dunianya , Allah hanya menambah kehinaan padanya.

2. Sesiapa yang mengahwini wanita kerana hartanya, Allah hanya menambah kepapaan kepadanya.

3. Sesiapa yang mengahwini wanita kerana keturunannya, Allah hanya menambah kerendahan padanya.

4. Sesiapa yang mengahwini wanita hanya kerana untuk menjaga pandangannya, memelihar farajnya atau untuk menyambung silaturrahim, Allah akan memberkati lelaki tadi pada isterinya dan memberkati isterinya pada lelaki tersebut."

Hadis riwayat at-Thabrani

Oleh itu kita kena lihat booster pendorong kepada perkahwinan kita. Ini sangat penting terutama lelaki yang akan mengetuai keluarga. Ini bagi memastikan perkahwinan kita diterima disisi Allah swt.

JADILAH LELAKI YANG TERBAIK

Lelaki perlu lebih bersdia untuk bahtera perkahwinan lebih dari wanita. Lelaki perlu melayan sebaiknya kepada isteri seprti Rasulullah saw melayan para isterinya. Nabi saw bersabda:

" Sebaik-baik kamu adalah orang yang paling baik adalah orang paling baik kepada isterinya, akulah orang yang paling baik kepada isterinya."

Hadis riwayat Ibnu Majah dan al-Hakim

JANGAN JADI DAYUS

Jangan pula salah anggap bahawa lelaki yang baik ini lelaki yang mengikut semua kemahuan isteri sehingga membuat perkara yang dilarang. Begitu juga sanggup mempertahankan rumah tangga walaupun pasangan tersebut menyebabkan runtuhnya iman dan akhlaknya. Nabi saw bersabda:

" 3 golongan yang tidak masuk syurga 1. Penderhaka ibu bapa 2. lelaki yang dayus 3. wanita yang menyerupai wanita."

Hadis yang baik sanadnya seprti dinyatakan oleh pengarang kitab " safwatul ahkam."

Lelaki perlu mengajar perkara yang wajib kepada isterinya seperti ilmu akidah, solat, zakat, puasa, pernikahan, muamalat (jual beli Islam), pembersihan hati dan lain-lain. Kalau dia tidak mampu si lelaki wajib mengajak isterinya pergi kelas pengajian seumpama ini.

Bagi pendapat saya kelas muamalat jarang ada di malaysia kerana kuliah malam kebiasaannya adalah tajuk umum. Lebih kepada kelebihan dan dakwah. Ilmu yang lebih mendalam terutamanya muamalat adalah jarang diajar.

PASANGAN MUSUH

يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا إِنَّ مِنْ أَزْوَاجِكُمْ وَأَوْلَادِكُمْ عَدُوّاً لَّكُمْ فَاحْذَرُوهُمْ وَإِن تَعْفُوا وَتَصْفَحُوا وَتَغْفِرُوا فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ غَفُورٌ رَّحِيمٌ

Hai orang-orang mu'min, sesungguhnya di antara isteri-isterimu dan anak-anakmu ada yang menjadi musuh bagimu maka berhati-hatilah kamu terhadap mereka dan jika kamu memaafkan dan tidak memarahi serta mengampuni (mereka) maka sesungguhnya Allah Maha Pengampun lagi Maha Penyayang.

Surah al-Munafiqun ayat 14

Menurut sebab penurunan ayat ini di dalam hadis2 yang sahih adalah kerana lelaki2 yang berada di mekah hendak belajar ilmu Islam dari Rasulullah di madinah. Namun pasangan mereka yang merayu dan menghalang untuk belajar ilmu Islam.

Kemudian turun ayat ini. Sepatutnya perkahwinan menyebabkan bertambah rajin untuk menuntut ilmu, berama ibadah dan berkerja untuk Islam tetapi yang terjadi sebaliknya berlaku. Pasangan yang berkahwin hendaklah pastikan ke3 perkara tadi bertambah selepas perkahwinan iatu ilmu , amal dan kerja Islam.

Inilah keredaan tuhan dalam perkahwinan. Hanya Salah satu dr tadi bertambah juga tidak memadai kerana 3 perkara ini adalah saling melengkapi. Setakat seronok , happy, bg makan, hubungan kelamin , rumah , perlindungan diri mdan lain2 binatang pun boleh bagi hehe. Oleh itu pilihla pasangan elok2 samada lelaki atau perempuan.

NABI YANG SPORTING KEPADA ISTERINYA

Kalau perkara yang tidak dilarang sisuami hendaklah cuba melayan dan memenuhi kehendak isterinya seperti mana baginda bersama isterinya. Ini beberapa peristiwa Nabi melayan isterinya:

1. Nabi berlumba lari dengan aisyah (hadis BUkhari)

2. Nabi memanggil penyanyi pada hari raya untuk aisyah mendengarnya (hadis sahih)

3. Nabi bagi peluang kepada aisyah untuk melihat permainan tombak oleh org2 habsyah. Masa tu aisyah berada dibelakang nabi dan pipinya rapat dengan pipi Nabi. (hadis sahih Bukhari)

4. Aisyah dan Saodah melawak dengan depan Nabi. Mereka saling ambil makanan dan letak di muka madunya.

Can it be??

I have tried very hard today..

for looking something that i should find

Yesterday is a history,

Today is a reality,

But tomorrow is a mystery..

I will try to find it again tomorrow..

A True Sweet Love

I have tried very hard,

To get a fine looking match,

But the journey seems not last,

As my eyes lie when they glance,

At those “girls” who play hard,

Now and forever as time pass,

I will wait for her to come

And we live a life that a bides,

A true sweet love for life,

Which Allah has proclaimed!

Hoping To be With You One Day

Always thinking of you..no matter the time and place

The thought of you brings a soft smile to my face

You’re the type to bring me up when I’m low

Trying to keep me laughing

I like our small talks and the clowning we do

Shows the commitment between me and you

No need for the drama and all that

We argue a little here and there,we real

I can’t wait till the day when there is a time for us two

To spend for the rest of my life cause I really trust you

This I couldn’t say so I just had to spell it out

My actions aren’t always perfect,here it’s all out

You’re all that and even more than I am asked for

The type that reminds me to pray with my head to the floor

I raise my hands and make “doa” then I pray

Asking for the best..hoping to be with you one day

Insya Allah

I really want to know who will be “you”…

Could you be the one for me?

Could you be the one for me?

Could you be the one for me?
Could you be my find?
Could it be, after all this time,
Fate is going to be kind?

Could you be the one for me,
The one to help me forget
The man that broke my heart, my soul
The man that haunts me yet?

You tell me that I'm beautiful
Something I've never heard
But the one still lives here in my mind
That couldn't spare a kind word

It's going to be hard to forget
And pick up the pieces he left
Could you be the one to teach
How to love again and forget?

Could you be the one to come
And mend my broken heart?
Are you willing to piece together
What another broke apart?

It won't be an easy job, you see
My road has been long and rough
And the heart that was once so soft
Is now shut, locked, and tough

But I can feel my heart open again
It's opening for you
Just come in, and love me back
That's all you have to do

I must ask you one small thing
Before we kiss and part
Please be nice and kind to me
I'm tired of broken hearts

IS THIS wHY AM I born

IS THIS WHY I AM BORN ?

To get scolding from you even when i'm innocent .
I'm always the bad one in your eyes .
I'm always bullying her .
IS THIS WHY I AM BORN ?

I'm really fed up , seriously . I'M FED UP UNDERSTAND ?
I CAN'T FREAKING TAKE IT NO MORE ...

When she did something wrong , i'm the one that kena scolding from you not her .
When i beat her , i am wrong .
When she fell down and cried , you blamed me again .
(She fell down in the bathroom then you blame me that i didn't wash away the shampoo on the floor after i bath . )

FARK IT .

& Even if she's the youngest doesn't mean she's always right .

Am i born to get scolding from you ?
HELLO , I'M NOT ALWAYS THE BAD ONE . SHE HAS BRAIN TOO . SHE KNOWS THAT YOU LOVES TO PAMPER HER AND DOESN'T SCOLD HER WHEN SHE'S WRONG . THAT'S WHY SHE THINKS THAT SHE'S THE BIGGEST ONE IN OUR FAMILY & DO WHATEVER SHE WANTS .

PAMPER HER MORE , YOU'LL REGRET SOMEDAY FOR PAMPERING AND HELPING HER .

I'm your freaking daughter ..
& you always say i'm jealous of her ?
JEALOUS OF WHICH PART ! HELLO , NOBODY'S PERFECT .
WHAT THE HELL IS YOUR PROBLEM ?


When i'm hurt , you don't even know .
When i'm crying in my room , you don't even know .
When my heart is breaking , you don't even know .
& you think that you actually know me a lot .




If i have a choice to choose whether to die / live .
I tell you , I would rather die than staying in the same freaking house with you peoples .
Fyi , i don't need you guys to come for my funeral .
I think you people will be glad and happy after i'm de